Expectations and Reality

When starting any big adventure it is incredibly difficult to avoid having expectations. Unfortunately expectations can lead to let downs when these expectations aren’t met – or conversely- one can expect the worst and be pleasantly surprised.

Andy has been dreaming about hiking this trail for 8 years. Reading blogs and doing research lends itself to having expectations. Luckily, Andy is wonderful about living in the present and enjoying the adventure – no matter what comes his way. Laurie, however, builds things up in her head. She’s aware of this and works hard to stay present.

Although consciously working to stay open to the trail experience and lessons, we started the trail with some expectations.

The following is a collection of those expectations and what really happened – up to mile 702.

The desert is hot
Our experience in the desert was surprisingly wet (rain, hail) which thankfully kept the temperatures cool. We only experienced temps over 90 degrees twice, and none over 100. We know this isn’t the norm, and we appreciated the cooler days.

The desert is boring
Andy, who grew up in LA, appreciated the desert. Laurie, who has never really spent time in desert was skeptical. Both of us were surprised by the amazing amount of blooming cacti and miniature wildflowers.

It was captivating to watch the clouds shade the distant hills. We giggled as lizards did push ups trying to intimidate us or frantically ran away along the trail. The arid landscape has won over both of our hearts.

Andy will do all the blogging
Laurie quickly realized she loves to write about our daily adventures. We take turns writing and often one will start and the other will finish. Or one will write the entirety of a post and the other will edit it.

We will meet people and form a trail family
We have met a lot of people – some we feel immediately drawn to and others that we trade hellos and superficial conversation but keep it at that. It is nice to see familiar faces in town and on the trail.

We feel part of a greater community but as a result of timing, our enjoyment of dry camping and feeling content with the company of one another, we have not formed many deep bonds with other hikers yet.

We will get tired of one another
We have been dating for over 3 years and know one another pretty darn well but thru hiking can be challenging. We have never lived together and now will be sharing a tent.

Will we have enough personal space?

Will we want time apart?

So far the answers have been no.

This time together is a gift. We laugh, joke and comfort one another with more ease. The things that used to bother us now make us laugh. Don’t get us wrong, there are still plenty of frustrating and irritating moments but we get over them quickly by talking about them.

We learn from them and make our relationship stronger. Building a relationship without daily societal distractions is a gift – we learn to accept one another for who we are at our core.

Our blog will be read only by family
We had no idea how this blog would turn out. We wanted to keep friends and family informed but never expected the breadth of exposure. Relatives of friends and complete strangers eagerly await our daily updates.

We love your comments and find a lot of pleasure in sharing our experiences with those we know and love, and those we don’t. Thank you for making this experience even better!

We will get clean and smell good in towns
We expected to smell but neither of us expected that 1 hour after a shower (in which we scrub our armpits with soap multiple times) we would start smelling again. The smell of onions or pastrami continues to plague us – even in town.

Our relationships with friends will suffer
Laurie thought being away for 6 months would create voids in her relationships. While she no longer sees a lot of her friends daily or on a frequent basis – she’s had more contact with some while on the trail then at home!

Without the daily distractions she recognizes what is most important to her – and that is her community. While hiking she spends a lot of time thinking and feeling grateful for the people in her life and sends out love into the atmosphere.

We will get bored eventually
Everyday on the trail is different. The views and weather constantly change, some days our bodies ache and others we feel like we can walk forever. This is part of the excitement and adventure. We never know what is around the next corner.

The first 700 miles had many hidden pleasures, we will soon see what the sierras have in store.

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Mile 15.4

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Mile 745

Day 51 – Waiting out the storm in Lone Pine

May 24, 2016

Miles: 0

We woke up Tuesday morning at 5:10am eager to catch the sunrise. Andy has spoken many times of the glorious view from Lone Pine of the Sierras (including Mt. Whitney) when the weather is clear in the morning.

Unfortunately this morning the mountains were nowhere to be seen, blanketed by dark grey clouds. So instead we got hot water from the lobby and went back to our room.

Andy tried to sleep some more (unsuccessfully) while Laurie worked on postcards and other tasks.

Around 10am Andy’s family arrived in the familiar blue van.

We drove a few blocks down Main Street to a park with picnic tables and a river that runs through it!

Before long, the table was set and we were enjoying another delicious feast. Rice with kale, grilled onions and cauliflower; potatoes; pasta with ground beef; chicken kabob courtesy of Mini Kabob; fresh salad; hard boiled eggs; veggie soup; and fruit. YUM!

After our first meal we drove to Alabama Hills. Andy loves the Alabama Hills and led everyone on a short walk to two arches – Eye of the Alabama Arch and Mobius Arch. The mountains were still hiding behind the clouds but it was sunny where we were.

On our descent jet fighters put on an impressive display in the sky which provided a nice distraction. It was like watching a private Blue Angels show.

Then the real work began. We sorted our gear, switched out some gear (like our rain jackets), tried on our boots and gaiters, and bought crampons (thanks dad!!).

All this work and the walking before made everyone hungry so we went back to the park for another meal. Afterwards we took what was left over for the next day or two so we minimize our spending in town while eating better food.

We chatted with other hikers on the way back to the Dow Villa, then relaxed the rest of the evening – watching Pretty Woman and checking the weather a few times hoping it would change from stormy to sunny.

We will be in town at least one more day waiting out the storm and waiting for our warmer sleeping bag. It was shipped overnight via FedEx but never arrived. The hotel staff isn’t surprised as FedEx is unreliable here.

We’re glad to not be in a major hurry or this delay would not have been pleasant. Hopefully it arrives tomorrow.

Tonight we are grateful for home cooked meals and UPS.

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Eye of Alabama arch

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Mobius Arch

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Day 50 – A zero in Lone Pine

May 23, 2016

Miles: 0

We slept in this morning, waking up around 7:30am. Laurie woke up in go mode, ready to cross things off her to do list.

We posted pictures on Instagram, published our blog posts, requested additional gear from Andy’s parents, and did laundry twice (because we forgot to wash some clothes the first time).

Secretly Andy thinks Laurie (who had never been to a laundromat before) wanted to wash all our clothes again to use Tide so they would smell good.

Already Andy can’t wait to smell like a hiker again.

Finally, at 10:30am we went for breakfast at Alabama Hills Cafe. It’s a staple in Lone Pine. We felt rushed to order and except for warm avocados in our omelette, we enjoyed our food, especially the peach crumble pie.

We came back from breakfast, showered and worked more on our blog posts.

It still surprises Andy how quickly time goes by in towns. By the time we crossed a few more things off our to do list it was 3pm.

Even though we did lots, we still found time to laugh a lot.

Fifty days in and we’re still having a blast together. Both of us are grateful to be where we are, sharing this experience with one another.

Around 4:30pm we finally left our room again for an early dinner. But first we went to the gear store Elevation. We’ve decided to buy crampons and be fully equipped for the Sierras.

They also gave us the number to a local who might possibly give us a ride back to Horseshoe Meadow on Wednesday, along with a recommendation for dinner.

It’s chilly here today. At least 10 degrees cooler than yesterday. Lots of grey clouds. There’s supposed to be weather coming in tomorrow again, which has driven some hikers out of the mountain and into town.

For the rest of the evening we relaxed – Laurie watched TV while Andy blogged some more and crossed more things off the never ending to do list.

Town days are exhausting. But we appreciate the rest they afford our bodies.

We’re sleeping early tonight (9pm) actually we slept around 10:30pm to wake up for sunrise tomorrow.

Goodnight.

Tonight we are grateful for fresh vegetables and cold avocados.

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Alabama Hills Cafe breakfast

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Laundry day attire. Lookin good in Andy's shirt

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Oh yeah, we sexy

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Dinner at Merry Go Round